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I’ve known guys who were adamant about not paying for a drink or a meal or a ticket, and they were looked at by the women they took out as petty.
It’s one thing if a woman is obviously trying to have you buy everything or get her things; it’s another thing entirely to offer to get the first round of drinks on a first date.
Typically I hear things like “Wait 3 dates before getting sexual.” Or sometimes I hear 5 dates, or 1 month, or even a few months, or yes, even marriage!
On a side note, a good woman is always going to offer to pitch in, get the next tab, pay for something else during the date, or offer to buy the subsequent round of whatever pops up.
Keep this in mind when you are deciding who is and who is not “girlfriend material.” Being “The Nice Guy” is not an effective strategy when trying to woo a woman.
The “Just Be Nice and She’ll Like You” crap is one of the worst dating advice for men strategies I can think of! When you try acting a certain way, you act incongruently with your inner emotions and your true self.
It literally drives me up the wall when I hear this because it’s so wrong! Women see right through this façade, and they never see the man favorably.