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When we are so focused on what we want to next achieve, what we want to have and who we want to become, we find ourselves completely unsatisfied with what we have already achieved, what we already have, and who we are right now.
This means we keep on pushing certain important milestones (e.g.
I, too, have reluctantly decided to wade back into the muck of online dating, and it’s predictably depressing.
But the thing about You that made me a frenzied evangelist to all my friends, particularly my straight female ones, was what it manages to capture about dating in 2019, particularly in a city like New York.
In November, the Atlantic published a cover story by Kate Julian about our so-called sex recession.
Talk to any single person in London, New York or Beijing (or any other city, village or town in the world for that matter) and they will tell you their location is The Worst when it comes to dating. Hong Kong is heaven for those who love to casually date but dating in Hong Kong is a special kind of hell for singles who no longer want to be single. Back in the day Hong Kong was considered a Plan B as per FILTH (failed in London, try Hong Kong) but nowadays Hong Kong is where the most hungry and driven people want to be.
These are great qualities when career progress is a priority but not when we seek love because we’re always aiming for something out of reach.