Men and divorce and dating after
It is important to be cautious, date a few different people at first, and not rush into a long term relationships.
While dating may seem daunting, it can be a very helpful part of the healing process.
Once you set up a profile (ask friends for help), what you are likely to witness is many people being interested in you, not being turned off by the fact that you are divorced, and that it feels really good to be communicating in the dating world. Many men long for some of the comforts that were afforded in their marriage. home cooked meals, laundry etc.) and that causes them to rush to find their next partner.
Also, since many have lacked a connection with their spouse for some time, when they meet someone new they mistake the honeymoon phase for true love.
Too many men seek out a new relationship before the dust has settled on their divorce, says psychologist Sam J.
Buser, Ph D, coauthor of The Guys-Only Guide to Getting Over Divorce.
They are more likely to have single friends and be comfortable setting you up.
Just remember, you won’t know the girl for at least a year.Dating After Divorce by Jason Price, LFMT In my therapy practice I work with a lot of divorcing men who are trying to adjust to life after their divorce.One of the common themes that I encounter is that men want the companionship of someone else, but are scared of the process of dating.They rush into new relationships -- and often into new marriages -- within the first year."That's no doubt the biggest mistake," says Buser, who is based in Houston.