Online sex talk without email

Most people feel completely embarrassed and ridiculous at the thought of trying it, just because they’ve never learned some basic guidelines.

In the bedroom, when someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” the hopefully-soon-to-be dirty talker suddenly freezes up like a soaking wet roll of toilet paper thrown out of an igloo in Antartica.

Dirty talk is an often overlooked but very powerful aspect of eroticism.

It activates the imagination, supercharges sexual polarity, and adds a steamy air of liberation to your naked shenanigans.

This is partially because men and women are wired differently.

Guys are more singular in their focus, whereas women can hold many things in their mind at once when it comes to sexual arousal.

Maybe something that you qualify as ‘dirty talk’ is something the other person might find offensive, silly, or straight up insane, and vice versa. (For the record, I don’t believe in the phrase “dirty talk” since there is nothing dirty about sex, or talking about sex.For example, you might have a female partner with a relatively high sex drive, but she only seems to get revved up when she’s “in the mood”, and you’re always left guessing as to when that is.She wants to have sex more frequently, but it just doesn’t cross her mind all that often. This skill is what separates the black belt lover from the fumbling grasshopper.A good rule of thumb with dirty talk is to tell your partner what you want to do to them/with them before you’re actually doing it, and then, while you’re doing it, specifically describe what it is you like about it.This is especially crucial if your partner is a woman.

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