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Men are attracted to confident women who get the concept of “interdependence.” Interdependence requires that you’re both independent and dependent; that means you create sacred space for your relationship as well as sacred space for your work, passions and friends.
Don’t lose the things that are most important to you, and keep doing what you were doing before you started dating him: your Sunday morning yoga class, a yearly vacation with your college roommates, etc.
If you make a man your whole life, he’s going to lose interest because he will most likely feel smothered!
Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing.
You might be in love and believe he is your soul mate, but as Dr.
Phil says, " A real soul mate would not set you on the sidelines." The married man might tell you he loves you, or even say his wife never made him feel the way you did. He does not have to commit, because he can use the excuse that he is married and he can't leave his wife or the kids need him. You might miss out on opportunities to meet the love of your life and get married. How can you trust him when it comes to your relationship?
It will probably make him wonder if you would do the very same thing with every other Tom, Dick and Harry.You could end up putting your whole life on hold for this man. Unless he divorces his wife right away, you just don't know how long you will wait. What kind of person takes up with someone else while still married?He might tell you he and his wife are both OK with the situation, but you just don't know.(so they might need a little more time than you to decide if you’re the one).Even if a guy is relationship ready, if you bring up on date three that you’re ready for a relationship he’ll likely question whether you really want to be in a relationship with HIM or if you’re ready for a relationship with anyone.